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A video found by random while I was looking for something else...
Sorry, it's in French,,, maybe I'll make a summary in English if requested.

Ok...
Video's dialogues, summarized here:

Girl:
Hello, this is our 1st video, it's about AM+BW relation.
we noticed lots of YT vids from the US but very few from France.

Girl: 1st of all, our couple is called "out of the norm" by some people, even among relatives.

Girl: My friends, they were surprised seeing me dating an Asian. They would expect me dating any other ethnicity but Asian. one of my cousin even made a nasty comment about my attraction for an Asian guy.

Boy (with a Chinese accent): On my side, that's the same. People expect me to be with an Asian girl, or anything but a Black girl.

Girl: People keep staring at us in the street, whispering or even making really unpleasant comments. But we try not to pay attention.
He gets even remarks from his friends about his "weird" fetish for "spicy" girls.
One day, we came across a little girl, Black girl, pointing at us & telling her sister: "Look she's hanging with a China man."

Boy: But there are not only bad comments. One day we saw another similar couple, American people maybe. They smiled to us for a moment. But we didn't know what to say: we were intimidated. But both couples understood each other at first sight.

Girl: It was sort of funny, both couples kept smiling at each other. We wish we had stopped & talked a little with them.

Girl: I'd rather hear people say we are an "unusual" couple, more than "out of the norm".

Boy: We are not out of the norm, we are just a man & a woman in a love relation. No matter what skin color.

Girl: Some friends asked if our relation could get in troubles.

Boy: We're just an ordinary couple in love, like any other.

Girl: Troubles come mainly from outside. It's annoying always being stared at. & my cousin, she told me : "You like Chinks". That was so mean.

Boy: One day at a restaurant, the waiter asked me in Chinese if she's my GF. I said she is. & He commented: "You have a very unique taste!" He was purely being ignorant.

Girl: But what can we do? Anyway, we are a strong core.
Our relation is not a source of pain. we are happy together, & that's the most important.
Some people find us cute & sometimes smile to us.
Also, what is odd is that we're in France, where melt a lots of different cultures. But, yet people are always amazed at seeing a couple like we are. Thus, despite lots of mixed couples hanging all around.

Boy: Our last vacation in Italy, people didn't mind that much.
In the US there are websites & Facebook grous to support AMBW couples. There's still some hope.

Girl: In France, there's only one AMBW dating webite, created by Amanda & her beloved. Amanda, this goes to you.

Boy: Please share your own AMBW experience. & If you like our vid, please share & "like" it.

Girl: Kisses & hugs.

SWEET MOTHER OF GOD!!!! So much crap! Actually I stop paying attention after least desirable women=black. Websites like this one are about no prejudice or racism. Or at least not intentionally from what I read on other forums. So with all respect, take that low ass bullshit somewhere else. Please!

London wrote: Ok, I'll give you a thorough answer.

According to statistics...
least desirable men = Asian
least desirable women = Black
Lowest ratio of inter racial marriage = asian male/ black female

In theory, they should get together especially with urban music etc, but statistically, its not happening...heres why...

1a) Popular culture, is one area which makes blacks in general appealing to non-blacks, notably music, dress, dance etc. However, in the UK, the blacks are either professional types, mostly foreigners/immigrants from west indies or Africa with thick african or westindian accents. They're basically foreigners with completely unknown alien culture to me. The British born blacks are mostly brought up in built up urban cities and have ghetto twangs when they speak, this totally turns me off. I hate ghetto/urban music, dance and dress and worst of all 'ghetto swagger/attitude.'

1b) geographically, in western world, black community is largely segregated from asian community. i.e ghettoisation, lack of integration. In the eastern world, black women are no where to be seen. I have never seen a black woman in my life in the Far East, black women aren't choosing the far east as a target destination for employment, study etc. I personally, have no close black friends and have never been inside a black persons house.

2) Physically, black male archetype and asian male archetype are completely different. So black women arent going for asian men.

3) Theres a general perception that physical features of black females are undesirable. Bubble lips have always been seen as ugly and only became acceptable as a sign of beauty after promotion by a non-black woman i.e angelina jolie. But do people make the same beauty connection with a black women? Debatable. Black women have flatter noses and wider nostrils, even Latoyah jackson had hers closed. Undoubtedly, a slim nose is much more desirable. Even in chinese culture, women with a short flat fat nose with no bridge is considered ugly. Black women are often perceived to be very aggressive verbally, too much attitude and physically heavy, the anti-thesis of a stereotypical feminine petite oriental woman.

4) Bartok is too PC. Its not the smoothness, its the colour thats the bigger issue. White skin in east asian culture is considered upper class like pearl, black skin is lower caste= low desirability. This is a convention of beauty passed down from history. Today, Black women, hispanic women, even chinese women who are already pale buy skin bleaching lotions. Why? because its desirable to have pale skin. Even black men prefer black women with lighter skinned tones as 'brownies' as they call them.

5) Generally Asian men give consideration to their parents wishes in choosing a wife. Its safe to assume most FOB asian parents dont want a black daughter in law. Sorry, but in my experience, its true. I mean of course you can date, but try pushing it to the next level and you'll understand better.

6) More specifically in your case... some guys dont want to date their friends because if they have a fling with them and they split up, they'll lose them as a friend and they would rather keep them as a friend by not dating them. E.g, This happened to a friend of mine, when his female friend made a pass at him. he told me it was that exact reason.

7) just because you are friends with someone of a different race doesnt necessarily mean you want to date them and vice versa and it doesnt mean theyre open to inter racial dating. I have muslim friends, do muslims want to date me and vice versa? Of course not.

I wanted to find the Asians who liked Black girls, I see a lot of Asian Guy/White Girl relationships going on, but no Asian Guy/Black Girl relationships







Where are you guys ?

I'm sorry to say! But this topic has already been discussed before in previous forms! >.<

can you give me any link ? D:

you should move to NYc or Boston or LA or Houston to find asian there.

Actually there are quite a few Asian male and black female couples out there, most of the Asian male non-Asian females on Youtube I've seen are with black girls. You just gotta keep meeting new people, eventually you'll find someone that will hit it off with you.

p.s. I still remember watching Romeo Must Die back in high school...oh gorgeous Aliyah, she put black girls on my radar.

older thread here:
/forum/35-frequently-posted-threads/36788-ambf--ambw-thread-collection-?limit=10&start=220#214072

I smell some thread merging soon

Asian guys are so cute !! ^^
& I'm in Japan now, and guys are really cute and nice..

I was afraid to come here because i'm black and i didn't know how people will react here but there's no trouble..
i even find a "good friend" ;p

don't give up